We welcomed our third baby girl, Remerie Rue Brickner, into the world one week ago today — Monday, September 10th at 1:10pm!  Remie weighed 7 pounds & 10 ounces, is 20 inches long, and shocked us all with a head FULL of dark hair.  She is precious and perfect, we are all in heaven and just cannot get enough of her!

I ended up going nine days overdue, which kind of felt like ninety, but the labor and delivery was by far my easiest and my recovery has been as well!  I will share her birth story soon, but for now, we are just soaking every bit of her newborn sweetness in and cannot believe she is ours.  We really can’t decide who she looks like, and keep going back & forth between Waverly and Avalon, but mostly she looks like my husband’s baby pictures.  Neither of the girls had the dark hair (or near as much of it!), so it will be fun to see if it falls out or changes color.  Her little features are so dainty, and even though she is our biggest baby by a few ounces, she just seems so little.

Right as she was born last Monday, the weather forecast had Hurricane Florence headed straight our way so it turned a crazy week even crazier.  Schools were cancelled from Tuesday through Friday, and I was pretty sure I was leaving the hospital with our newborn and headed home for the first time as a family of five to a category four hurricane.  Thankfully it weakened, made a turn and ended up sparing us almost entirely which I was SO GRATEFUL for, but of course our thoughts are with those in North & South Carolina who did not get so lucky.  Having the girls off school and my husband home from work because of all the cancellations has been the best, we have been able to take long family walks, sleep in some, and adjust to having three kids.  So far, Remie is super laid-back and the girls absolutely adore her, so it’s been a really easy transition.  But of course the real fun starts tomorrow when my husband heads back to work and I have to get all three girls up, ready and out the door for school and doctor’s appointments.  Wish me luck!

Thank you all for your sweet messages and support over the past week, it means so much to all of us!  And to our sweet Remie Rue, we could not love you one bit more!!!!!  You are the best surprise of our lives and we could already never imagine a life without you in it.

Well, we are one day into the school year over here — and officially have a preschooler (in the three’s this year!) & a FIRST GRADER!!!  I remember thinking about this day months back, after we had bought our house and knew that Waverly would be a walker this year, plus knowing that my due date was a few days before so I would be off work and able to really focus on the girls first day without rushing to my own.  I had the sweetest visions of walking the baby down in her stroller with the big girls next to me walking with their bookbags, and ultimately instead, I waddled them down the road, with a huge belly, three days overdue.  

Not quite what I envisioned, but I’m feeling grateful that I was able to be there for them (not in labor or at the hospital) and that it gave us time to have some special moments and sweet memories before baby sister arrives.  Waverly & Avalon were sooooo excited, look at their sweet, happy faces — this was the first year with no tears from anyone!

Waverly is of course at a new school, one of the main reasons that we moved, we love everything about her school and are so excited for all of our girls to grow up there!  Avalon is still at the same preschool, two days a week!  She can be shy with new situations at first but since she is already comfortable with the school this time around, she walked right in, turned to look at me and said “I love you, mama”, then didn’t look back.  I was so proud of them both, picking them up to hear all about their day was my favorite part!

For the memory book, we asked both girls some questions again this year the other morning:

What do you want to be when you grow up?  Waverly — A cowgirl, cheerleader, and lifeguard.  Avalon — A dragon.

What is your favorite color?  Waverly — Pink, gold, and silver.  Avalon — Blue.

What is your favorite food?  Waverly — Spaghetti & Meatballs.  Avalon — Cinnamon Rolls.

What are you most excited about for school?  Waverly — PE.  Avalon — Snack.

Happiest new school year to my darling girls, we love you and are so very proud of you! 

Aaah, we are one day away from our due date, TOMORROW, September 1st!  We are anxiously awaiting baby girl’s arrival, I had been wondering for months if we would have an August or September girl and it looks like she will hang on until September (the first of all five of us not to be born in the summer months!).  It’s been really important to me to document as much as I can of this pregnancy, just like I did with the first two — both Waverly & Avalon love looking back on pictures of when they were in my belly and I want this baby to be able to do the same.  So here goes, an official last pregnancy update with Baby B three!!!

The last couple of weeks have been WAY different than the last weeks of either of my first two pregnancies.  With both big girls, I hardly had any signs of labor at all, didn’t feel different than the weeks before, and other than some hopeful feelings that my water would randomly break — I really didn’t think I would go into labor.  This time I have had alllll the signs and have literally thought I was in labor a few different times, only for everything to stop all at once.  Which I’m sure others can relate (especially since I have googled it 300 times), is so mentally & physically exhausting!  Ultimately though, I am trying to embrace these last few days with her in my belly and to just be at peace with when and how she gets here.  Also on the upside, apparently my belly makes the coziest, happiest little place for my babies to be, and if I am induced for the third time, it must be that my girls recognize my need for planning everything and just want me to be able to do that.

In other news, I celebrated my 35th birthday this week!  The girls were the cutest about it, Waverly spent an hour the night before decorating the house with happy birday mommy and it’s your day signs, she told me at least three different times that she “takes birthdays very seriously”.  My husband leaves for work super early so when I woke up, I could hear both girls all by themselves downstairs whispering and making me breakfast.  They came up to my bed singing happy birthday a few minutes later with a plate full of cereal (no milk), an apple, two strawberries, and bread (not toast) with two unicorn candles leftover from their birthday party poked in the middle of it.  I literally could have died from the sweetness.  Most of the rest of the day was typical, everyday stuff (and still plenty of sister arguments & little girl drama), but goodness I feel incredibly grateful to be where I am at 35 and cannot believe I will have THREE little girls to celebrate with next year.

The nursery is completely done, we have tons of diapers from the sprinkle and hand-me-downs from the big girls, some new stuff special just for baby girl, and all the hospital bags are packed!!!!  I was having major anxiety a few weeks back about getting everything done but of course like everyone always does, we made it work!  She actually does not officially have a name yet, we are about 95% sure of her first name and have not decided on a middle name, but hoping that all becomes clear once we meet her!  Cannot wait to share pictures and the good news SO SOON!  Cannot believe it.  XO

A long overdue house update, it’s now been about four months since we closed on our second home at the end of April and a little less than three since we officially moved in!  I completely meant to share more about the process, but it turns out life with two kids, one on the way & a house renovation is crazy — and also, even though we have gotten SO MUCH done, we don’t really have a room that is 100% done yet, and I want to wait to share until then.  Hopefully room by room, as we finish them!

The hardest part of this entire experience was the time between closing on our old house and our new house being “livable” enough to move in.  During those weeks the four of us weren’t living together (which was really hard mentally, for the girls & us), and it felt like every time we turned around there was another setback that we didn’t plan for time or budget wise.  It was HARD, and didn’t help that I was pregnant and desperately trying to keep the girls on a schedule, since they were both still in school.  But we managed, got it done and were able to move in — the house still needed so much work but being together, under the same roof again, was so much of a relief that it made things like not having a sink or oven seem like less of a big deal.  I will never forget those first few days we finally moved in, having the girls sleeping in their own beds again and pulling out our own dish towels and bowls was soooooo exciting!

Since moving in, we have just done little by little, I have found it so important to count small victories each day and to just take one project at a time.  I am so Type-A and hate unfinished anything (or a mess!), so I really have to remind myself all the time that it will all be worth it.  Which it is already.  My husband has done a lot of the work himself and it really is so amazing to see our vision come to life, especially when it’s him creating it.  There is something to be said about a house that you make your own, making decisions on paint colors or knobs can be really overwhelming but I love that everything is personal to us.

A few photos of parts of our downstairs, including a little peak into the kitchen, by far our biggest project so far!  When we moved in, the kitchen was dark and really small, we knocked down a wall and part of another to make it bigger, as well as gutted pretty much everything in it — I cannot believe what a change it is!  We are waiting on some wood floating shelves for the main tile wall and then it will be complete, just in time for all the fall decor!

Hoping to share some more in the weeks/months to come, including some finished rooms!  Happy week ahead! XO

 

We celebrated our tiniest little girlfriend over the weekend with the sweetest sprinkle, Donuts & Diapers hosted by my mom and sister!  I was 38 weeks (and feeling it!) the day of the party, we didn’t intentionally plan to have it so late in my pregnancy but with a crazy summer it was just the way it worked out — we were thankful she held on in there long enough for us to celebrate!  I had to be talked into a sprinkle at all, especially with a third girl, but love that she got to have her own celebration just like her big sisters.  Also super thankful for lots of diapers and wipes for baby girl, we will obviously get lots of use out of them in the weeks/months to come!

The sprinkle was at my sister’s house, my mom & her did the best job planning it and had so many sweet details to make the morning just so special for all of us.  They did a donut wall, biscuit bar, “momasa” bar, yogurt parfaits — soooo many yummy breakfast treats, I didn’t even have a chance to get photos of them all!  I also loved reading the special “wishes for baby” that our family and friends filled out while we were there, almost every single one of them said something about always being close to her sisters which made me smile every single time I read that.

The biggest thank you to my mom and sister, our family and friends for making us and our baby girl feel so loved!  We are officially READY for her to get here now! 🙂
PS — I had my 38 week appointment yesterday and for the first time ever, am dilated to a one all on my own!!!  I wasn’t even dilated overdue or at the hospital with either of the big girls, so I am feeling super encouraged even with just a little bit of progress.  I am so hoping she comes on her own or at least, that if I am induced it will be an easier process this time.  Please send all labor vibes my way! XO